I have a testimony in Jesus Christ and in Heavenly Father. I know that they love me so much they established a plan that allows me to return to live with them. I have a testimony of the Book of Mormon and of Joseph Smith, I know Heavenly Father restored the gospel through him. The Book of Mormon is another testament of Jesus Christ and his love for me. I have a testimony of Thomas S. Monson. I know he is a living prophet and through him we receive guidance from our Father in Heaven. I know going on my mission is the right thing to do, I want to become a tool in the hands of the Lord. I know that Fort Lauderdale is the place I am supposed to go and the Lord will help me on my path. I know families can be together forever, that I will be able to see my grandmother and other relatives that have passed on when I too leave this world and return to Him.

In the name of Jesus Christ, Amen.

Elder Park

Sunday, August 24, 2014

Week 46 In Ft. Lauderdale....

Well guess what? this week was awesome! Like incredible!

The E******* Family went down!!

I cannot tell you how long I have been praying for this family. There was nothing, not even  2 to teach in our pool and then BOOM God gave us a big old "Here Ya Go" and gave us a 5 times 3  That's right a Family the FULL family got baptized on Sunday and there is plans already being made for the 7 year old to be baptized in December and for them to go to the Temple NEXT AUGUST!!!! BAH. I have NEVER seen such solid people! These are like leadership quality! I can see before they get to the Temple Y**** having a calling in Young Men's and C**** teaching Primary! This is a wonderful family I can't help but smile just thinking about them! And the 9 year old son wasn't even dry yet and he asked "when can I go on my mission?" They are incredible we taught them the WoW on Thursday they went home and threw out their Iced Tea, and all of Grandma's coffee (grandma does not like us as much now...)

Elder Park actually looks kinda tall standing next to Elder B****! He doesn't get that very often!
Funny story about teaching them the Word of Wisdom... They had offered us Iced Tea 2 or 3 times before and we had politely declined and each time I felt that I needed to bring it up and didn't. Then we would leave and I would feel terrible. Then when we finally taught them, they took it like champs. But then on our lesson the day after when we were talking about what they had done, Y**** pauses and say "Wait, how many times have you been over? And how many times have we offered you tea? And you watched us drink it? You let us sin!" They totally called me out! And threw the sins upon my head and we had just talked about repentance and they basically told me that I am the one that needs to repent for those... I got taught by my Gators! they REBUKED ME!

So I will let you all know that I have repented that and will be teaching the Word of Wisdom and any other commandment AS SOON AS it comes up!

But the Relief Society President Sister N*** was the one that really taught me a lesson during the baptism, she said, "Elder Park has been grinning from ear to ear. That's nice to see. Keep it up!" I do not know why those word's had such weight to my ears, but I realized I hadn't been smiling that much in the recent days! I AM A SMILER! But I hadn't been, because I just hadn't, but that's coming back ya'll! I have been smiling non stop now!

Well there's not much more I can tell you because this week has been over shadowed by the awesomeness of yesterday

STAY STRONG PUSH ON


ELDERO PARK

An Email Conversation With Elder Park....

We had the Elders over for dinner Friday.

Me: We fixed some pretty awesome hamburgers for the missionaries on Friday! They were pretty happy boys!


Elder Park: Awesome Leah said they weren't very talkative! did they say much about how they find people to teach? because you gotta be talkative to find here that why we struggled a little.

Me: Oh, we kept them going. One was quite a bit more chatty than the other. They were pretty cute. We did talk about finding. They do most of theirs through members. We explained Harvesting and blessings. They said they had heard of that before, but haven't tried it. They said they also work a lot with the MLS Missionaries. Not sure what that is, I think it is the Ward Mission Leaders or something like that. But someone from the area.

Elder Park: MLS normally means Member Leadership Service and its a computer program for ward clerks...? I am confused but HEY IDK everybody knows that Salt Lake is a totally different ball game! Can you imagine Harvesting there? You would either get roped into a meal (oh elders come in we just put dinner on the table No no we are good I INSIST oh okay...next door Hi Elders we just put dinner away but its still warm come in!...repeat) or get turned away by hardened "From Utah but I ain't a Mormon" people. And harvesting is becoming a "wildfire rumor" return mish shares with local he's skeptical tries it loves it passes it on... and so on.

Me: I took pics of them and texted them to their Mama's. Mama's love those kinds of things.... :)

Elder Park: whats that supposed to mean?

Me: Just saying that I was kind enough to take some pictures of these 2 cute missionaries, got their Mama's, Daddy's and 1 Gma's phone #s and sent them pictures of their missionary. That's all....

Elder Park: sounds like you are hinting at something...
you have that weird Octave higher voice when you are trying to be sly

Me: Hehehe! 

Elder Park: you are SOOO such a good con artist... FINE I will try. haha

Me: Who? Me? Lol!

I love that he can take my crap from so far away! Love Him!!

Week 45 In Ft. Lauderdale....

This week was a wake-up call...

and it hit me like a truck.

The past few weeks I have felt like I am learning and applying the things that I have been learning, I felt that I was adding tools to the tool box of conversion, bettering myself and preparing for others, just waiting my time to use them, waiting for the change, waiting for something (or Somebody) new...

And this week we were having interviews with President Richardson for the first time, and the question I took was what am I missing? And before we even began he said he wanted to share a scripture.

Doctrine and Covenants 64: 32-34
32 But all things must come to pass in their time.
33 Wherefore, be not weary in well-doing, for ye are laying the foundation of a great work. And out of small things proceedeth that which is great.
34 Behold, the Lord requireth the heart and a willing mind; and the willing and obedient shall eat the good of the land of Zion in these last days.
Boom... there it was. My answer. Smacking me in the back of the head at 98 mph... Vers 34 "Behold, the Lord requireth the heart and a willing mind" I had the willing mind I was doing everything that we needed to have success I was mentally all there. I was acquiring the tools that I needed but at the moment, my heart wasn't there. I was doing my job. I was not emotionally involved, I was not acting out of Love. My heart wasn't in it.

I have to say after that interview I was emotionally shook... It was and incredible revelatory, and spiritual moment.  But it was not what I had expected. I realized that I am here on the Lord's errand, doing the Lord's work, the work of Salvation, I should be emotionally involved, I should be dying to get out each day. And I realized that I had lost that since I have arrived here in Homestead, and I needed to get it back! I needed to get some oomf again.

And so began the Mega-Mondo-Faith-Booster-Over-Haul! This week was also the new month so I realized that we needed to set a new goal... what has been our baptismal goal for the past 4 months in Homestead? 3... What is the record that this area baptized in a month, in other words whats this areas potential? 6 what is our new baptismal goal for the Month of AUGUST the BIG #12? we are going to baptize.... 7 this month and set the record for our area! The only way that that can happen is if we have the Lord on our side! and what does he require? "...the HEART and a willing mind..."  What am I willing to give to baptize 7 children of God this month? Everything! I know who I am, I know that the Lord wants this even more than I do and so we are going to do it!

I know that this is different than my past emails but its because I realized that I need to be someone different right now I am SO EXCITED TO BE A MISSIONARY RIGHT NOW!!! I DON"T KNOW WHAT GOT INTO ME I HAVE ALWAYS BEEN SO EXCITED TO BE HERE NOW I AM GOING TO PUT IT TO USE!!!

Stay Strong, Stay Humble, and PUSH ON!!!


ELDER PARQUE

Friday, August 1, 2014

Week 44 In Fort Lauderdale....

This week did not start to successful, well actually I think that it depends on how you look at it... Monday and Wednesday we had 2 meal appointments (5, and 7) and on Tuesday we had 4 (12,4,6,9)... so most of our day was taken up, but at least most of the appointments were for investigators and FHE's with families and their non-member friends... well let's just say things got a little plugged up and Elder Park had to take Thursday to learn a lot about Laxatives. As far as I can tell there was no happy solution. What ended up working is called "The Purple Dragon" it is a saline concoction that really caused drastic results. And left a feeling of complete cleanliness. Anyway... that will be the last of that talk. Mom, that does not need to make it to the blog, I just thought that I would inform you of the odd happenings. Oooops! Did I forget to take that one out? Hehehe!
  
Well everybody, I want you all to know that I have a firm testimony of the reality of Satan. This week it rained, not big news I thing I mention the rain very frequently, but this week I think the Gulf of Mexico moved to Homestead there was literally1-2 feet of water on the roads and in some of the low spots on Saturday even more, and unfortunately, our good friends that were going to get baptized got flooded. So they went to stay with families up north and were unable to come Sunday, but they WILL be baptized this Sunday! SATAN SHALL NOT WIN! But we were very blessed this week in finding.... ANOTHER FAMILY. We are considering renaming our district from the "Homestead" district the the "Home and Family" district. But these guys are AWESOME. Y****, remembers meeting with the missionaries when he was 12 but nothing much happened, but now when his 9-year-old son is wanting to go to church he does not want to take his son to a church where he doesn't feel anything. He has been looking for the missionaries for about a month and the other day while Elder B**** was on exchange with Elder U******, he saw them and he FLAGGED THEM DOWN!!! He came to them! We went over and taught them and the 9-year-old said after the prayer that God told him that this was the church for his family and they were going to like it. And so they want to prepare for the next Sunday. HOW COOL!!!
Anyway, we lost a day of proselyting this week on Friday. A part member family asked us to help them move, the husband (non-member) just asked us because "there's just two or three big things we can knock it out in an hour and a half"... well we got there at noon... at 4 we realized that the 3 of us would not be able to handle this all... we called back up and got 1 prospective Elder come and help... at 7:30 E. B**** and I had to leave to go to co-ordination, Jon the soon to be Elder stayed... he called us at 10:25 and said he just left... I will say that was the HARDEST I have ever worked in my life... there were SO MANY STAIRS!!! and so many obnoxiously heavy small things... We are now REALLY good friends with the husband and he feels indebted to us... so we negotiated a sit down dinner in the new house and a lesson.

Anyway that was the bulk of the week but I want you to search for 2 talks neither is on LDS.org, one is called "Create Success" By Elder M. Russel Ballard, and the other is called "The Fourth Missionary" I don't know the speaker, And I don't know how to find them but they are awesome and I would like you to put them on the blog and email me an electronic copy

ANYWAY LOVE YOU ALL.. Stay Strong, Push ON!!

ELDER PARK

Week 43 In Fort Lauderdale....

This week we worked a little in Key Largo and we stopped at the Key Lime Products store, and I bought a Key Lime Pie in the Keys. I forgot to have a frozen chocolate dipped one, but next time! Just thought I would let you know that I have checked that box of things mom told me to do.
It was delicious!!

Yay! Was it wonderful!?!?

It definitely was amazing, but I will say... that better than the pie was the smoked fish spread that we were given down there by some members! That was amazing! The pie was great too! I still have a slice left, maybe I will mail it to you... ;) or not... ;P

Smoked Fish....?? Hmmm, I am pretty sure the pie would have been better. Fish will kill ya!

... I can solemnly testify that that smoked fish was one of the most delicious things I have EVER tasted and almost, almost made me consider moving down to the Keys after the mission. It was literally a life changing event, you MUST try some smoked tuna.

I understand that your are solemnly testifying, but I think you taste buds are broken... 

Well this has been a week of incredible changes, I may now have "advanced taste buds"!

Well this was a week full of changes, I realized due to training's and personal studies that things were not going to change in our area unless I changed and adapted to my environment, I needed to become a creator of circumstance, not a creature of circumstance. Yes, this area is slow. Yes, it is difficult to work with my companion. And Yes, people down here work a lot, but it is my duty and calling to figure out how to make it work down here in Homestead. And so that has been what I have done.
This week we continued our focus on members, branching that out to include less active members that are reaching out and trying to regain the gospel in their lives. Also, we changed when we harvest and knock doors from 5:00 to 7:00 because while that is prime teaching time, it is also the prime finding time here because the people get home about that time. Also, I have been trying to apply any and every training I have been given. Which is difficult because we have a new one every week. But I think the thing that has made the most difference to me has been realizing that the success of my area is directly linked to my obedience and faith. That is something that I have understood, it was a piece of knowledge that I could recite to anyone, but I realized as I read the talk, "Learning By Faith" by Elder Bednar, that faith leads to action, action leads to progress and progress leads to faith, this therefore creates an ever upward and continuing cycle. And so the implementing of my faith and obedience will help me to find the success that I know I righteously desire. And the Lord bore testimony of this to me this past Saturday. I had decided that it was pointless to harvest during the first few hours of the day, we never found anyone and it simply discouraged me early in the day. The attitude of discouragement is not the attitude of success, so even though we were on exchanges I decided that we should go visit a less-active lady that had asked us to come over a few weeks earlier. I regret to say that I really didn't want to visit her, when she had asked us over she had stated that she just needed the support of the missionaries to come by to help her get to church. There are a lot of people that just like us to come by and visit and shoot the breeze but make no progress and she seemed like one of them. But, for some reason she was the only lady I could think of that we could visit. And so we did. As I knocked the door I braced myself for a lady alone in her house that would try repeatedly to get us to come in, no matter how many times we tell her we can't, but was pleasantly surprised when I was greeted at the Door by a LARGE man. Who said, "finally it's da mishunarees" (he has a slight speech issue) Anyway, turns out that there are three kids in the family that want to get baptized, a 16 year-old, a 17 year-old, and a 9 year-old girl. And they ALL came to church yesterday and are preparing to get baptized this next Sunday! And like I said this made me realize that if there is something to do, an assignment, a favor or any thing, do it and do it with faith and the Lord will truly bless you. I cannot tell you the joy that I felt while we taught that family the message of the restoration, to watch joy return to the eyes of the mother who had long ago forgotten the beauty of the restored gospel and to see understanding enter the eyes of those teenage kids, all because we swallowed our pride and aligned our will with God's.
That is another thing that I have learned, "Pride is the great stumbling block of Zion" I have learned that Pride comes in so many different forms and we need to continually strive to strip ourselves of pride to unify ourselves one with another, because "if [we] are not one, [we] are not [his]" (D&C38:27).
But really there has just been an incredible amount of learning going on down here and I am just soaking it in, I really encourage you all to read both those talks and if you have to read them again, they have really changed my life, and my view towards my mission, life, and eternity.

Stay Strong, Push On!

I love you

ELDER PARK

The Fourth Missionary

Elder Park asked that this talk be added for your reading pleasure...

"The Fourth Missionary"
By Lawrence E. Corbridge
June 22, 2002
Objective: Show missionaries who they can become and why?
Be the Fourth Missionary
Missionary #1 #2 #3 #4
Characteristics * Disobedient * Disobedient * Obedient and worthy * Obedient and worthy
* He does what he wants to
do
* He does what he wants to
do
* Does his duty * Total surrender
* Serves entire mission * Serives faithfully, but
withholds his heart
*Consecrates himself
*Charity
* He does what Lord wants,
but he wants to do, what he
wants to do
*Disciple of Chirst
*Measure of success from
within
* Sacrifices his will for the
Lord's will
* His predominant desire is to
do what the Lord wants him to
do.
* May strive to be the best
* Measures success by
comparison
Consequences *Either sent home or returns
home
*The good he would have
otherwise done, goes undone
(fruit)
*Does great good (fruit)
*Enjoys the Spirit
*Has faith
*Does great good (fruit)
*Enjoys the Spirit
*Has faith
*The good he would have
otherwise done, goes undone
(fruit)
*Foregoes development
*Regret
*Impairment of faith
*Conforms his behavior
*Frustration and discontent
*Gains little or no knowledge
*Nature changed
*Content and happy
*Benefits immensely from and
is changed by mission
*Forgoes development *Misery *Is not changed by mission *Gains great knowledge
*Shame and misery *Is not changed by mission *Redeemed
*Impairment of faith
*Hard to fit in
*Inactivity or unproductive
activity in Church
*Is not changed by mission
1. Introduction
Be the Fourth Missionary.
Occasionally we learn something that has a profound influence in our lives. This can be one of those times. If you
understand and become the Fourth Missionary, it will change your life. What I have to say to you is not hard to do, but it
will change your life, if you apply it. I promise you that.
The characteristics of the Fourth Missionary are among the most important things you will learn while on your
mission. If you acquire these characteristics you will be happy, you will have peace of mind, and your knowledge,
capacities and talents will expand. If you acquire the characteristics of the Fourth Missionary godly virtues will become a
part of you, and the service that you render will change you.
If you don't understand what I have to say, or if you don't apply it, you may live a righteous life,
you may do much good, and yet live in quiet frustration and discontent. The good that you do, and the
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service that you render, will do you little good. The virtues of godliness will not be incorporated into your soul.
What I have to say is based on the doctrines of faith, charity and consecration.
As we talk about the four kinds of missionaries, please understand that I mean no disrespect to the sisters by
generally using the masculine pronoun, rather than the awkward form of "he or she". These principles, of course, apply to
all missionaries regardless of gender.
2.Vision
You have a choice. You can decide what kind of missionary you will be. More importantly, you can choose what
kind of person you will become. Do you think about that? Do you think about and plan for who you want to become?
Your life's greatest work is you
As you entered the mission field you concluded one phase of life and began another. To this point many of you
have had the protection and close support of family and church leaders and teachers. Now you have moved into a new
phase of life on your own. You are essentially on your own. From this point on, you are wholly responsible for what you
do and most importantly for who you become.
For the most part, your life is yet ahead of you. What will you do with it?
What will be your greatest work? What will be your most important creation?
I will tell you. Your greatest work: your most important creation is and will ever be you. What kind of person will
you become? By this I do not mean what role in life will you take. I don't mean will you be a cowboy, lawyer, surfer,
homemaker, engineer, computer programmer, accountant or the like. I do not refer to what kind of car you will drive;
what kind of clothes you will wear; what kind of house you will live in; what kind of spouse you will marry or what kind
of family will you raise. I mean, when all of that
is removed and there you stand alone, who will you be? I mean, you.
What personality will you have; what strengths; what knowledge; what character; what emotional state; what
presence; what qualities; what virtues? What will you look like? What will you sound like? What will it be like to be
around you? Who will you be?
Envision and plan for your greatest work.
We plan many things in life. We each live in a house that was built from a plan. Someone first envisioned the
house in his mind and a plan was then put to paper.
One of my sons had a poster picture of a Porsche Carrera on his bedroom wall. It is a beautiful creation. The lines
and symmetry of its design make it a work of art in the opinion of some. That car began somewhere, sometime ago in
someone's head. First, someone saw it in his mind and then put it to paper. Someone envisioned it; then plans were
prepared, the work was done, and a beautiful car was created.
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Some of you bave carefully planned your education. You carefully planned your course
selections over these past several years with a view toward college admissions and intended occupations.
All of you at some point made a plan to serve a mission, you followed that plan and here you are.
Now, hopefully all of you plan the appointments, activities and goals of each day and week.
We plan many things in life. But, have you planned your greatest work? Have you envisioned
who you will become? Do you plan for what kind of person you want to become? Can you see in your
mind who you want to be? Do you know?
The choices
As you consider what kind of person you want to become, what choices do you have? The choices are more
limited than what you might think. Here are most of the choices, but overall they are a choice between the
qualities of light or the qualities of darkness: '
Do you want to be powerful or weak?
Certain and confident, or afraid and insecure?
Comfortable with your self or arrogant and abrasive?
Do you want to be filled with light or darkness?
Do you want to have peace or conflict within?
Selfish or generous?
Influential or inconsequential?
Do you want to be free or be a slave?
Happy or miserable?
Do you want to be kind and loving, or mean and cruel?
Honest or dishonest?
Do you want to be forgiving or hard and unforgiving?
Knowledgeable or ignorant?
Do you want to be a person of faith or doubt and fear?
Trustworthy or unreliable?
Hardworking or lazy?
Do you want to be cheerful or despondent?
The first of each of these choices is an attribute of light. They are incorporated into your character
as you choose to follow Christ.
Dynamic process; always changing
As you consider the question of what kind of person you will become, you must understand the
dynamic process of life. You not only can change but you do change all of the time. Sometimes people do
not believe this. They excuse their failures and weaknesses by saying: "That's just the way I am." "I am
just short tempered, impatient person." I can't get up in the morning. That's just the way I am." "That's my
nature." Or, "I'm just shy. That's all. That's just who I am." "I am not really a spiritual person."
To believe that weaknesses and deficiencies in your character are unchangeable is to reject the
central truth of the plan of salvation. You are not cast in stone. You not only can change but you do
change all of the time. You are a dynamic, changing, evolving being. You are always changing. You
never stay the same. You cannot stand still.
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You are right now the sum total of what you have thought, said, seen, heard and done. What you
think, say, do, hear and see, cause you to change; to change for good or evil; to become either stronger or
weaker; to either internalize the qualities of light or the qualities of darkness. You are responsible for who
you are and you are responsible for who you will become.
Do you know what kind of person you want to become? Do you see in your mind who you want
to be? Do you know?
What manner of men ought ye to be?
Jesus asked a similar question. He said: "What manner of men ought ye to be?" On this particular
occasion he was speaking to his Nephite disciples and so he spoke in the male gender, but the question
applies to us all, and so, He asks of you: "What manner of men and women ought ye to be?" Then
answering His own question he said, "Even as I am."
Jesus Christ not only came to atone for our sins; He also came to show us the way. He is the
Way. You not only may become like Him; everything is stacked in your favor to become like Him.
Think of this life as a path on which you never stand still. As you move forward, you incorporate
into your being the characteristics and qualities of God. As you move backward you assimilate the
qualities of Satan.
Every challenge you face, every hard thing you confront, every bad thing that happens to you,
every unfairness, every conflict, every sadness, tragedy, every disappointment and heartache, every
temptation and every opposition happens for one purpose only: to give you opportunity to respond by
applying in your life the teachings of Jesus. As you do so you are changed to become more like Him.
If you were never presented with some advantage to be gained by dishonesty, such as
recognition, or money, or a better grade on a test or avoidance of punishment or embarrassment, you
could never develop integrity. If no one ever offended you, you could never learn to forgive or internalize
mercy. Were you never wearied by the annoying behavior of another or the repeated failures of someone
else you could never become patient. Were you never subjected to the appetites and passions of the
physical body for food, for water and for sexual fulfillment you could not develop self mastery. Without
opposition the plan would be frustrated, you could not progress and the purpose of life would be
unachievable.
In short when you choose to follow Christ you move forward and assimilate attributes of light;
when you do not, you move backward and acquire attributes of darkness.
Can you see, have you seen, who you want to be? What will happen if you don't plan. What will
happen if you have no vision of who you want to become?
There are two ways of evolving: deliberately and accidentally. You can either decide who you
want to become and deliberately work toward that end, or you can just go with the flow and become
whatever life makes of you. In that event, you will become whatever the fickle circumstances and forces
of life and society will make of you; whatever is currently considered to be popular or in; whatever is
easiest. But, whatever you become accidentally it will not be nearly the full measure of our potential. You
will become just someone, somewhere in the middle.
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There are four kinds of missionaries. The way of the Fourth Missionary is the only way to
become more like Jesus Christ. The way of the Fourth Missionary is the only way to light, intelligence,
strength, capacity, peace, contentment, grace, knowledge, power, happiness, mercy, joy and every other
good thing.
3. The First Missionary.
a. Characteristics
Disobedient
The First Missionary is disobedient. He does not keep the commandments of God, much less the
mission rules.
He does what he wants to do.
He generally does what he wants to do. He likes the idea that he is independent and does things
his own way. He thinks that the obedient missionaries are weak. He sees himself as a bit of a rebel, a free
thinker and he likes the idea that he is not like them.
b. Consequences
Sent home or returns home at his own insistence.
The First Missionary does not complete his mission. He fails. He either is sent home because of
his disobedience, or he returns home at his own insistence.
The good he would have otherwise done, goes undone.
The good that this missionary could have done, goes undone, at least by him. The fruit of his
service is not harvested, at least by him. Those who would have been changed by his service, go
unchanged, at least by him.
Forgoes the personal development that he otherwise would have experienced.
Remember that I said to think of this life as a path on which you never stand still. As you move
forward, you incorporate into your being the characteristics and qualities of God. As you move backward
you assimilate the qualities of Satan. The first missionary goes backward. He moves in the wrong
direction. He forgoes the light, knowledge, strength, intelligence and virtues that would otherwise have
been his, and instead develops the qualities of darkness.
Shame
He may think that the good life awaits his return, but when he returns there is only shame to greet
him.
Impairment of faith
The First Missionary cannot have faith. Joseph Smith taught in the Lectures on Faith that three
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things are necessary in order for a person to draw down into his life this power that we call faith. "First,
the idea that (God) actually exists. Secondly, a correct idea of his character, perfections, and attributes.
Thirdly, an actual knowledge that the course of life which he is pursuing is according to his will."
The First Missionary cannot have faith because although he may correctly believe in God. he
cannot believe in himself. He cannot know "that the course of life which he is pursuing is according to
God's will" because it isn't. As a result he cannot exercise faith anymore than Laman and Lemuel could.
That is why, when Nephi asked Laman and Lemuel if they had inquired of the Lord, they
responded: "We have not; for the Lord maketh no such thing known unto us." (2 Nephi l5:8-9). You
know what? They were right. Not that the Lord refused them; rather, they could not have faith sufficient
to get an answer because they did not know and could not know that the course they were pursuing was
pleasing to God, because it wasn't. They were going in the wrong direction.
Do you understand that if you are not doing what the Lord would have you do, you cannot
believe in yourself; you cannot believe that you are worthy to receive God's help and guidance in your
life? You cannot have faith to pull down the blessings of heaven into your life.
The First Missionary cannot have faith. Not because he does not believe in God; rather, because
he cannot believe in himself.
Does not fit in. Inactivity or diminished activity in Church.
After this missionary returns home he feels like he does not fit in. It is hard for him to remain
active in the Church. Every sacrament meeting that involves a missionary farewell or report, he is
reminded of and haunted by his failure. He feels like he does not measure up and that he never will. He
typically becomes inactive, or is relatively unproductive in his involvement in the Church because of his
lack of faith; because he does not believe in himself.
4. The Second Missionary.
a. Characteristics.
Disobedient
Like the First, the Second Missionary is also disobedient. He does not keep the commandments
of God, or the mission rules.
He does what he wants to do.
He also does what he wants to do.
Serves the entire term of his mission.
Although the Second Missionary is disobedient, he makes it to the end of his mission without
being sent home, or without going home at his own insistence.
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b. Consequences.
The good he would have otherwise done, goes undone.
This missionary is ineffective; in fact, he is counterproductive. The good that this missionary could
otherwise have done, goes undone, because he is not worthy of the Spirit of the Holy Ghost, and without the Spirit
he can do no good. The hit of his service is not harvested, at least by him. Those who would have been changed
by his service, go unchanged, at least by him.
Forgoes the personal development that he otherwise would have experienced.
Like the First, the Second Missionary goes backward. He moves foolishly in the wrong direction. He
foolishly forgoes the light, knowledge, strength, intelligence and virtues that otherwise would have been his, and
instead he assimilates the qualities of darkness.
Regret
Although the Second Missionary completes his mission, he fails as well. True, he does not have the public
shame that the First Missionary has, but he is ashamed in his heart. He looks back on two years of service with
regret. The legacy of his mission is regret. He gives two years of his life in exchange for which he gets regret.
What a bad bargain!
Impairment of faith
The Second Missionary cannot have faith anymore than the First. He cannot know "that the course of life
which he is pursuing is according to God's will" because it isn't.
If you are not doing what the Lord would have you do, you cannot believe in yourself; you cannot believe
that you are worthy to receive God's help and guidance in your life. You cannot have faith to pull down the
blessings of heaven into your life.
The Second Missionary cannot have faith. Not because he does not believe in God; rather, because he
does not believe in himself.
Misery
The Second Missionary is miserable. As Alma taught his son Corianton, "...wickedness never was
happiness." Not now, not ever. It cannot be. The Second Missionary is miserable and will always be so, until he
chooses to turn around and move in the opposite direction.
Does not benefit personally from mission.
This missionary does little good and does not benefit from his mission even though he makes it to the
end. He drags down his companions and other missionaries around him. He wastes his time and the time of those
who have to tend him. The First and Second Missionaries require most of the time and attention of the mission
president and mission leaders, and yet benefit the least from it.
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5. The Third Missionary.
a. Characteristics
Obedient and worthy
The Third Missionary is obedient and faithful. He is worthy.
Does his duty; serves faithfully, but withholds in his heart.
Among those who are obedient, there are two ways to live the gospel, or to serve in the Church: the hard
way and the easy way. These two ways are represented by the Third and Fourth Missionaries. The way of the
Fourth Missionary is actually, in the end, easier.
The hard way, is the way of the Third Missionary. He lives the gospel, and serves in the Church, with
what I call the "bite-the-bullet" approach, the "grin-and-bear-it" or "gut-it-out" approach. He is obedient and he
does what he is supposed to do. He does his duty. He gets through it and then. at long last. he gets about doing
what he wants to do. That is the Third Missionary.
The Lord has admonished: "Therefore, O ye that embark in the service of God, see that ye serve him with
all your heart, might, mind and strength, that ye may stand blameless before God at the last day." D & C 4:2. The
Third Missionary serves only with his might and strength, but he withholds his heart and mind.
He does what the Lord wants him to do, but he wants to do what he wants to do.
The Third Missionary does what he is supposed to do, but he doesn't like it, because he wants to get
through with what he is supposed to do, so he can get about doing what he wants to do. He does what the Lord
wants him to do, but in his heart he remains focused on what he wants to do. In his head and in his heart, he
withholds. In his head and in his heart he is not true. He is conflicted. He is frustrated that the gospel and the
Church are forever calling on him to do things that he does not want to do. There is a constant tension, a constant
conflict internally, between what he wants to do and what the Lord wants him to do. There is a constant struggle
between the natural man and his divine nature. He gives his time, energy and talents to the work well enough, but
he does not give himself He does not give his head, or his heart.
Sacrifices his will for the Lord's will.
The Third Missionary admirably sacrifices his will for the Lord's will.
Measures his success by comparison to others.
This missionary generally measures his success by recognition and comparisons of his performance in
relation to others. He may even strive to be the best missionary in the mission, better than everyone else, but he
wonders why people don't acknowledge and reward his service and sacrifice more.
b. Consequences. What are the consequences that flow from the Third Missionary's service?
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Does great good. Fruitful missionary.
The Third Missionary is a successful missionary as measured by the transformation that occurs in the
lives of other people. By his service and sacrifice the Lord accomplishes His purposes and many lives are
changed. Many people are baptized as a result of his labors.
Enjoys the Spirit of the Lord.
He is blessed with the Spirit of the Holy Ghost that others may be blessed. He receives the Spirit to find
and teach with convincing power those who are prepared to accept the gospel. But although he is given power to
bless others, that same Spirit does not in turn prove to have much effect upon him personally.
Changes his behavior.
While the Third Missionary changes his behavior, his character or nature does not change. He adapts his
behavior to conform to the rules of the mission and to the commandments of God. His nature or character,
however, is not changed to become more like the Lord.
Frustration. Discontent.
Although the Third Missionary is obedient, he is frustrated, discontented and at times resentful, because
of the internal conflict between what he wants to do and what he is supposed to do.
He is like a person described by the Christian author C.S. Lewis, who is honest and dutifully pays his
taxes hoping that there will be enough money left over for him to live on and to use as he wants, afterward. "As
long as we are thinking that way, one or other of two results is likely to follow. Either we give up trying to be
good, or else we become very unhappy indeed. For, make no mistake: if you are really going to try to meet all the
demands made on the natural self, it will not have enough left over to live on. The more you obey your
conscience, the more your conscience will demand of you. And your natural self, which is thus being starved and
hampered and worried at every turn, will get angrier and angrier. In the end you will either give up trying to be
good, or else become one of those people who, as they say, 'live for others' but always in a discontented,
grumbling way-always wondering why the others do not notice it more and always making a martyr of yourself."
(Mere Christianity, C.S. Lewis, p. 167).
Contentment, peace of mind and happiness are always just out of reach, ahead of him. All the while he
labors he thinks and wishes that things could be the way they used to be, snow boarding or wake boarding, or with
his friends, or girl friend, or driving his car back home, instead of tracting along a hot and dusty street 3:00
o'clock in the afternoon. Little does he know that things can't be, and will never be, the way they used to be. Life
is always changing; it never stays the same. All the while he labors he thinks that he will be happy and content
when he is transferred, or when he gets a new companion, or when P-day comes, or when he is made a senior
companion, or district leader, or particularly when he completes his mission and returns home. He thinks that he
will be happy when he can get done with what he is supposed to do and finally do what he wants to do. Little does
he know that actually he is choosing to never be happy at all.
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Does not benefit personally from mission.
Here is the heart of this talk. Here is what you must understand. Although the Third Missionary does
great good, the good that he does, does not benefit him personally.
How can this be? This curious phenomenon of not benefiting personally from one's service and sacrifice,
is described in some of the most beautiful and profound passages of scripture.
Turn to I Corinthians 13.
1. Though I speak with the tongues of men and of angels, and have not charity, I am become as sounding
brass, or a tinkling cymbal.
2. And though I have the gift of prophecy, and understand all mysteries, and all knowledge; and though I
have all faith, so that I could remove mountains, and have not charity, I am nothing.
3. And though I bestow all my goods to feed the poor, and though I give my body to be burned, and have
not charity, it profiteth me nothing.
These beautiful passages of scripture seem to say that even if one has great capacities, gifts and talents,
such as the gift of eloquence, the gift of prophesy, the gifts of knowledge and faith, and yet if his heart is not right,
if he does not have charity, he is nothing.
Moses saw God face to face, experienced His presence, saw the workmanship of God's hands, felt and
witnessed His greatness and glory, and when it was all over, he said: "Now; for this cause I know that man is
nothing, which thing I never had supposed." (Moses 1:10). Could it be that in comparison to the
greatness and glory of God, Moses saw that man in his weakness is nothing?
Mormon described this same condition of spirit when he described many of the Nephite people living at
the time of Christ's birth: "Behold, they do not desire that the Lord their God, who hath created them, should rule
and reign over them; notwithstanding his great goodness and his mercy towards them, and they do set at naught
his counsels, and they will not that he should be their guide. O how great is the nothingness of the children of
men..." (Hel. 12:6-7).
Ammon said: "... I know that I am nothing; as to my strength I am weak; therefore I will not boast of
myself, but I will boast of my God, for in his strength I can do all things..." (Alma 26: 12).
The Lord also revealed to Joseph Smith, that without faith, hope and charity we can do nothing. "And if
you have not faith, hope, and charity, you can do nothing." (DC 18:19).
More importantly, these verses in Corinthians that speak of "charity" say that even if you give all of your
goods to feed the poor, even if you give your body to be burned, lay down your life for the truth, if your heart is
not right, you will not profit by it. Good will be done, the poor will be fed, and the truth defended, but the good
that you do, will do you no good, unless your heart is right. Unless you have charity..
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Probably no one has taught this sobering truth more clearly than Moroni. He said:
For behold, God hath said a man being evil (heart) cannot do that which is good; for if he offereth a gift
(two years of service), or prayeth unto God, except he shall do it with real intent it profiteth him
nothing.
For behold, it is not counted unto him for righteousness.
F or behold, if a man being evil giveth a gift, he doeth it grudgingly; wherefore it is counted unto him
the same as if he had retained the gift; wherefore he is counted evil before God.
And likewise also is it counted evil unto a man, if he shall pray and not with real intent of heart; yea, and
it profiteth him nothing, for God receiveth none such. (Moroni 7:6-9). (See also Moroni 10:4.)
This is kind of discouraging news! How can this be? Surely this can't really be true. Aren't we to be
judged by our works, and if our works are good, will there not be blessings poured out upon us? Isn't that a basic
tenet of the gospel?
The answers to these questions, are to be found in understanding what it means to "profit" from our good
works and what is the central blessing of mortality.
The purpose and central blessing of life is change. It is to be changed to become more like Jesus Christ. It
is to incorporate into your character, the qualities of His character. It is to move from one degree of intelligence
and capacity to the next, and from there to the next, until you see God face to face and know Him as He knows
you.
(Holding up the scriptures)...none of this makes much difference unless it gets inside of you. All of this is
only marks on pieces of paper bound together in leather; it has no intrinsic value, unless it becomes you. The
purpose and essential blessing of life is to be changed to become more like the Lord, to realize the full measure of
your divine potential.
This process of change, this process of evolving, becoming, is the object of the gospel. Change is the
design of faith in Christ, repentance and baptism. Redemptive change happens by the power of the Holy Ghost.
But it happens only if and when your heart is right. It happens only if you do not fight against God. It happens
only if you unconditionally surrender your will to the Lord.
Maybe more than anyone, Alma had much to say about the relationship between the heart, good works
and prosperity. Alma explained to his son Corianton what he called "the law of restoration". He said that if your
works are good and the desires of your hearts are good, you will be "restored to that which is good", or in other
words you will "profit" as Paul said, or benefit from the good that you do.
(Alma 41 :3-6)
3. And it is requisite with the justice of God that men should be judged according to their works; and if
their works were good in this life, and the desires of their hearts were
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good, that they should also, at the last day, be restored unto that which is good.
4. And if their works are evil they shall be restored unto them for evil. Therefore, all things shall be
restored to their proper order, every thing to its natural frame- mortality raised to immortality, corruption
to incorruption-raised to endless happiness to inherit the kingdom of God, or to endless misery to inherit
the kingdom of the devil, the one on one hand, the other on the other-
5. The one raised to happiness according to his desires of happiness, or good according to his desires
of good; and the other to evil according to his desires of evil; for as he has desired to do evil all the day
long even so shall he have his reward of evil when the night cometh.
6. And so it is on the other hand. If he hath repented of his sins, and desired righteousness until the end
of his days, even so he shall be rewarded unto righteousness.
Again, Alma said:
"...for I know that he (God) granteth unto men according to their desire, whether it be unto death or unto
life; yea, I know that he allotteth unto men, yea, decreeth unto them decrees which are unalterable,
according to their wills, whether they be unto salvation or unto destruction...he that knoweth good and
evil, to him it is given according to his desires, whether he desireth good or evil, life or death, joy or
remorse of conscience." (Alma 29:4-5).
In these verses Alma essentially says that you will get what you want. If you want a "mess of pottage"
then that is all you will get. If you want light, intelligence, strength, capacity, peace, contentment, grace,
knowledge, power, happiness, mercy, joy and every other good thing, then you may have those too. It is up to
you. Whatever you want.
You cannot be spiritually changed against your will. It is contrary to agency. It is also contrary to the
nature of things. It just can't happen.
Alma also said to Corianton:
11. And now my son, all men that are in a state of nature, or 1 would say in a carnal state...they are in a
state contrary to the nature of happiness.
12. And now behold, is the meaning of the word restoration to take a thing of a natural state and place it
in an unnatural state, or to place it in a state opposite to its nature?
Don't misunderstand Alma's language. Don't misunderstand his use of the word "nature". Don't think that
"nature" means the way you are forevermore. That is a vicious and false doctrine. It is contrary to the true doctrine
of hope. The truth is that our nature can change. That is what this is all about. You may permit the Lord to change
your nature if you give yourself to Him and to His work. He cannot work on what he does not have, and He
cannot have you, unless you give yourself to Him.
As Alma says, happiness is the product of righteous works and righteous desires, desiring to do what the
Lord would have you do. If your secret, heartfelt desires are rather to do what you want to do, rather than what the
Lord wants for you, you will not be happy, and you will not profit from even your
good works, because you will be in a state that is "contrary to the nature of happiness". You can't be in a condition
or state that is opposite to your nature. You can't be in a state of happiness, whether now or in
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the eternities, if you don't want to do the things that lead to happiness, even if you do those very things. Do you
hear this? You can't be happy if you don't want to do the things that lead to happiness, even if you do those very
things.
Mormon recorded that the more humble part of the people in the day of Helaman and his sons, Nephi and
Lehi:
...did fast and pray oft, and did wax stronger and stronger in their humility, and firmer and firmer in the
faith of Christ, unto the filling their souls with joy and consolation, yea, even to the purifying and the
sanctification of their hearts, which sanctification cometh because of their yielding their hearts unto
God. (Helaman 3:35)
Do you see. how important the desires of your heart are? You can do the very things that should produce
happiness. but if you are all the time fighting them within. if you are all the time wishing. and hoping and wanting
to do your own thing, you will not be happy, because your state, your frame of mind, will not be conducive to
happiness. Your frame of mind will be contrary to the nature of happiness, and it will be for you as though you
never did those good things at all.
Your world is in your head. Get your head right and your heart will follow, and you will be right.
Another example of this same principle is found in Section 58 of the Doctrine and Covenants,
verse 29:
But he that doeth not anything until he is commanded, and receiveth a commandment with doubtful
heart, and keepeth it with slothfulness, the same is damned.
Again, one might think this a bit odd. Here is one who does what he is commanded to do. He is after all,
obedient, and yet he is damned. Why? Primarily, because his heart is not right. He thinks his way is better, and so
he has a doubtful heart, and he is damned. Does "damned" mean condemned to hell? No, it means that he does not
progress. He is not changed to become more like the Lord because his heart is not right. As Paul said his good
works "...profit him nothing."
In a similar vein Paul also taught in 2 Corinthians 9:6:
6. But this I say, He which soweth sparingly shall reap also sparingly; and he which soweth bountifully
shall reap also bountifully.
7. Every man according as he purposeth in his heart, so let him give; not grudgingly, or of necessity:
for God loveth a cheerful giver.
I remember when I first came across this scripture. It must have been a bad day, or worse yet maybe my
heart was in a bad way. I remember thinking, "Oh man! It isn't enough that I give and give and give, but now I
have to smile when I do it, or it's not any good? What's next? Life blood?" That is how Missionary Number 3
thinks. Resentment.
Why does God love and want us to become cheerful givers? Is it that He doesn't want any grumps in His
house? No, it isn't that He wants a house full of happy campers. Rather it is that you can't be changed to become
like him against your will.
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It comes as no surprise that the disobedient missionaries, the First and Second Missionaries, are not
changed. It is not surprising that they do not incorporate into their character, the qualities of godliness. But it may
be surprising and even disturbing that the Third Missionary does not change either. After all he is faithful and
obedient. The Third Missionary is valiant and he does much good. But do you see that in his head and in his heart
he fights God, just like the First and Second Missionaries do?
It isn't that God withholds this great blessing of change from the First, Second and Third Missionaries.
Rather it is that they refuse to accept it. They cannot be spiritually changed against their will. It is contrary to the
law of agency, free choice.
Alma also said to Corianton, that we may partake of the waters of life freely and be satisfied, if we choose
to, but if we don't want it we will not be compelled to drink. "Therefore, O my son, whosoever will come may
come and partake of the waters of life freely; and whosoever will not come the same is not
compelled to come..." (Alma 42:27)
. It is up to you. You cannot be changed to become more like God, if within your heart you fight
against God; if within your heart you resist, resent and hold fast to what you rather would do.
Gains little or no knowledge.
Alma also said that those who "harden their hearts" learn very little.
And they that will harden their hearts, to them is given the lesser portion of the word until they know
nothing concerning his mysteries; and then they are taken captive by the devil, and led by his will down to
destruction. Now this is what is meant by the chains of hell. (Alma 12:11)
Although the Third Missionary does the Lord's will, his heart is hardened against it. As a result he learns
little. It is not that God necessarily withholds knowledge from the Third Missionary; rather it is that so long as he
fights against the Lord in his heart, he is not in a condition to receive it.
6. The Fourth Missionary.
a. Characteristics. As we begin to talk about the differences between the Fourth Missionary
and the others it is important that you not put him on a high pedestal. It is important that you not think of him as
nearly perfect, just short of exaltation. It is important that you not think the characteristics of this missionary are
beyond your reach. It is absolutely critical that you know, that each one of you knows, that you can be the Fourth
Missionary. In fact, the way of the Fourth Missionary is in the end, easier.
He is not perfect. He has weaknesses. He struggles and may have his times of sorrow, disappointment and
discouragement. He is a lot like the Third Missionary. There really is only one small difference between the two.
But although the difference is slight, the consequences are enormous.
What are the characteristics of the Fourth Missionary?
Obedient and worthy
Like the Third Missionary, he is obedient and worthy.
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Total and unconditional surrender
Unlike the Third Missionary, the way of the Fourth Missionary is what I call "unconditional surrender". In
addition to giving his time, talents and energy to the Lord, the Fourth Missionary gives himself. He gives his will
to the Lord. He surrenders all of his desires, his dreams, his wishes to the Lord. In his heart and in his head he lets
go of what he wants to do. His wants to do the Lord's will.
Paraphrasing C.S. Lewis the Lord says to us: "Give me all. I don't want so much of your time, so much of
your talents and money, and so much of your work: I want You. All of you. I have not come to torment or
frustrate the natural man. but to kill it. No half-measures will do. I don't want to only prune a branch here and
another there; rather, I want the whole tree out. Hand it all over to me, the whole outfit, all of your desires, all of
your wants and wishes and dreams. Turn them all over to me, give yourself to me and I will make of you a new
self in my image. Give me yourself and in exchange I will give you Myself. My will, shall become your will. My
heart, shall become your heart." (Mere Christianity, C.S. Lewis, p. 167)
Let me be clear that I am not talking just about giving up evil desires, but rather all of your desires, all of
your wants and wishes and dreams, whether good or evil. All of it together. For example, I desire to provide for
my family; I want to be with my sons when they get married; I would like to be with my parents in their last
years; I enjoy rock climbing, ice climbing and mountaineering; I want to climb Mount Rainier; I like snow skiing
and water skiing; I enjoy being with my family; I like being the teacher's quorum advisor; but I am called to serve
a mission. These are all good desires. You have other desires equally good or better. The Third Missionary gives
up doing those things. The Fourth Missionary gives them up in his heart as well. They are overcome and
swallowed up by his predominant desire to serve the Lord.
This doesn't mean that the Fourth Missionary abandons his dreams altogether. It doesn't mean that the
only course for him to follow is to serve a mission and then teach seminary all his life, although that is a noble
profession. He may still go to college and then to medical school; he may still perfect a back flip on a snow board;
he may still play on a college athletic team; he may still return and marry his girl friend, but not now. He boxes up
all of those plans, wishes, wants and desires and puts them on a shelf in his closet at home with all of his clothes
and other things. When he returns he will unpack all of the boxes. He will find that some of the clothes he doesn't
want anymore, and he will give them away. When he unpacks the box of his wants, wishes, dreams and desires he
may find that there are also some of those he doesn't want anymore either.
As in all good things, Jesus showed the way of the Fourth Missionary.
(Matt. 26:39)
39. And he went a little further, and fell on his face, and prayed, saying, 0 my Father, if it be possible, let
this cup pass from me: nevertheless not as I will, but as thou wilt.
(John 4:34)
34. Jesus saith unto them, My meat is to do the will of him that sent me, and to finish his work.
(John 5:30)
30. I can of mine own self do nothing: as I hear, I judge: and my judgment is just; because I seek not
mine own will, but the will of the Father which hath sent me.
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(John 6:38)
38. For I came down from heaven, not to do mine own will, but the will of him that sent me.
(3 Ne. 27:13)
13. Behold I have given unto you my gospel, and this is the gospel which I have given unto youthat
I came into the world to do the will of my Father, because my Father sent me.
This way, the Lord's way, is in the end, easier. It is easier to give yourself to Him, to surrender your will
to His, than it is to fight the fight within. It is easier to give yourself to Him, than it is to wrestle in your heart and
soul between what you want and what the Lord wants, between the natural man and your divine nature.
Now don't freak out about this. Don't think that I am teaching you some grand, higher law that only the
most elect of the most elect can live. If you believe that you believe a false doctrine. The doctrine of Christ is the
doctrine of faith and hope. You can do this. You can shift from the Third Missionary to the Fourth Missionary. It
is as easy as changing your mind, because that is where it's at.
If you're not happy, if you are frustrated or resentful, look inside. It is within you. Jesus said: "The
kingdom of God is within you." It is in your head and in your heart. It starts in your head and then your heart
follows. You only need say to the Lord in your head, "I give up. I surrender. I won't fight anymore. Here it is.
Here are my desires. Here is my will. I want only to do what you want me to do. That's enough for me. That's all 1
want, because it is the only intelligent thing to do."
The truth is that it doesn't take eons of time to do this. Our nature, our hearts, our desires can be
changed almost immediately upon the attainment of knowledge. Our nature can change almost immediately as we
come to understand true doctrine. In this instance, as you come to understand that the only way to light,
intelligence, strength, capacity, peace, contentment, grace, knowledge, power, happiness, mercy, joy and every
other good thing, is to follow Christ, then you will want to follow Him because it is the only intelligent thing to
do. Not because you are a saint, not because you are better than others; rather, because you are more intelligent
than others. It is the only intelligent thing to do. When you understand that, then you will forget about yourself,
and your will. and your only desire will be to do the Lord's will.
Consecrates himself.
The Fourth Missionary lives the law of consecration.
There are those who give of their means, their time and talents, and then there are others who give
themselves. Sacrifice, it seems to me, is the first - consecration, less common, is the second.
,
Sacrifice implies doing one thing at the expense of another thing that has equal, or maybe greater, appeal.
One bites the bullet and sacrifices his time and talents, his girlfriend, concerts, friends, cars, education, tv, movies,
music, and even gum for two years.
The Fourth Missionary understands that, as King Benjamin taught, the Lord is never in our debt. He
knows that God always blesses us many times more than the measure of what we give. Jesus said, a hundred
times more. "And every one that hath forsaken houses, or brethren, or sisters, or father, or mother,
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or wife, or children, or lands, for my name's sake, shall receive an hundredfold, and shall inherit eternal life."
(Matt. 19:29).
For the missionary who understands the benefit of this bargain, there is nothing of equal or greater appeal
than to do the Lord's will. Everything pales by comparison. There is for him, therefore, really no sacrifice, no
choice, only free will, intelligent giving, only consecration.
One who consecrates, gives himself. In addition to giving his time, means and abilities, he gives himself,
his heart, his mind, his will. He gives himself.
The voice of Christ said to the Nephite people:
O ye house of Israel whom I have spared, how oft will I gather you as a hen gathereth her chickens under
her wings, if ye will repent and return unto me with full purpose of heart. (3 Ne 10:6).
In the end, your heart and your will is all that you have to give that the Lord does not already have. If you
give your time, two years, and your strength, you give only that which He grants to you with each beat of your
heart and each breath that you draw. If you dedicate your gifts and talents, you only return to Him what He
already has given to you. If you pay tithing you only return to Him a tenth of what he has already given to you.
Everything that you have to give to the Lord, has its origin in Him, except one thing: your will. He does not have
your heart, nor your mind, unless you give them to Him. It is the only gift you have to offer that He does not
already have. And so when you give yourself, you truly give everything to Him.
Jesus spoke of this matter of giving or consecrating yourself in different words. He spoke of losing
yourself. He said:
25. For whosoever will save his life shall lose it; and whosoever will lose his life for my sake shall find it.
26. For what is a man profited, if he shall gain the whole world, and lose his own soul? Or what shall a
man give in exchange for his soul? (Matt. 16:25, 26)
The Fourth Missionary is the only one who can lose himself in the work, because he forgets his own
concerns, he lets go of what he wants. When he lets go he then is free to think of others. He is the only one who
does not count the cost. He doesn't itemize and total all that he has left behind to serve a mission. He does not
count the cost. He forgets about it. He forgets himself. He loses himself.
On one occasion after I received the call to be your mission president I was thinking about the
consequences of the call. I started to think about the financial consequences, leaving my sons behind, my mother
and father in poor health, the impact on my law practice, the consequences regarding our family and our home,
and the prospect of leaving behind rock climbing and skiing and other passions, and the impression came to me,
actually the words came to me, "don't count the cost." The Fourth Missionary doesn't count the cost.
Charity
Another way to say this is that the Fourth Missionary has charity. Don't think that charity means money
that we pay to help the poor. The quality of charity is described at times as "unconditional love" or "the love of
Christ". Let's return to I Corinthians 13 to better understand what charity is.
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4. Charity suffereth long, and is kind; charity envieth not; charity vaunteth not itself: is not puffed up,
5. Doth not behave itself unseemly, seeketh not her own, is not easily provoked, thinketh no evil;
The Fourth Missionary, the one who has charity, "seeketh not (his) own". He does not seek to do his own
will (thing). He doesn't envy. That means that he is content with what he has and what he is doing. He does not
envy or wish to be somewhere else, doing some other thing.
6. Rejoiceth not in iniquity, but rejoiceth in the truth;
7. Beareth all things, believeth all things, hopeth all things, endureth all things.
8. Charity never faileth: but whether there be prophecies, they shall fail; whether there be tongues, they
shall cease; whether there be knowledge, it shall vanish away.
9. For we know in part, and we prophesy in part.
10. But when that which is perfect is come, then that which is in part shall be done away.
11. When I was a child, I spake as a child (probably selfishly), I understood as a child, I thought as a
child (thinking only about my own selfish interests): but when I became a man, I put away childish
things.
12. For now we see through a glass, darkly; but then face to face: now I know in part; but then shall I
know even as also I am known.
13. And now abideth faith, hope, charity, these three; but the greatest of these is charity.
Seek for this gift and quality of charity. Work for it. Pray for it. Moroni said:
Wherefore, my beloved brethren, pray unto the Father with all the energy heart, that ye may be filled
with this love, which he hath bestowed upon all who are true followers of his Son, Jesus Christ; that ye
may become the sons of God; (changed) that when he shall appear we shall be like him, for we shall see
him as he is; that we may have this hope; that we may be purified even as he is pure.
Disciple of Christ
Jesus said that this single quality of charity is the hallmark of a disciple of Christ. "By this shall all men
know that ye are my disciples, if ye have love one to another." (John 13:35)
As part of the restoration the Lord revealed the calling and mission of the Twelve. He charged Oliver
Cowdery and David Whitmer to find these twelve disciples and said: "And by their desires and their works you
shall know them." (DC 18)
The Third Missionary is a faithful laborer in Christ's work. The Fourth Missionary is a disciple of Christ.
His measure of success comes from within.
This missionary strives to be a faithful representative of Jesus Christ. He measures his success by the
peace that comes into his heart from time to time when he can honestly say," I am doing my best. I have a lot of
weaknesses and a lot to learn. But I am withholding nothing from the Lord. I am serving with all of my might,
mind, heart and strength. I am faithful and giving it all I have to give." At the end of his
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service this missionary wants to look back over his two years, and be able to say to himself and to the Lord, "I
have no regrets; I did my best".
The Fourth Missionary does not so aspire to become a "great" missionary; rather he aspires to be a
"servant". He knows that "greatness" implies his performance in relation to others. He knows that the critical
measure is his conduct in relation to his own abilities and in comparison to his past performance. While he fully
understands and does not resent the need for statistics, numbers and measurements, he is not motivated by the
praise or recognition of men. He is motivated by his desire to give himself and all that he is and has, to the Lord
and to his work, however, that may compare with others. He knows that Jesus taught his disciples who at times
aspired to the honors of men, that "whosoever will be great among you...shall be servant of all." He said: "For
even the Son of man came not to be ministered unto, but to minister, and to give his life a ransom for many."
(Mark 10:43-44).
His dominant desire is to do what the Lord wants him to do.
The Fourth Missionary's dominant desire is to do what the Lord wants him to do.
But don't think that this one is always filled with the Spirit and ready to rush headlong into what the Lord
would have him do. Don't think that he is always whistling a happy tune, skipping down the road, looking for
another door to be slammed in his face. There are times when he doesn't like it either; there are times when he
doesn't want to go either. He gets tired and discouraged too. The sun and the rain beat down upon him just like the
other three.
Don't think that just because you may become discouraged or because you may not want to go either, that
you are, therefore, not the Fourth Missionary.
Lehi said: "For it must needs be, that there is an opposition in all things." (2 Ne 2:11.) Life is hard at
times, and missions are hard, for the Fourth Missionary as well as for the first three.
Elder Holland teaches that a great swimmer once said when asked his secret of success: "1 kick when 1
don't want to kick, and I stroke when I don't want to stroke." Like the First, Second and Third Missionaries there
are times when the Fourth Missionary doesn't want to kick and doesn't want to stroke either. The difference
between the Third and Fourth Missionary is that the Third Missionary will kick and stroke because it is his duty,
because that is what is expected of him and he will hate and resent it, while the Fourth Missionary will kick and
stroke because he knows that it is the only intelligent thing to do.
Even Jesus, the One Perfect One, prayed: "Father let this cup pass from me..." There were things that He
too did not want to do. Those desires that He "...even God, the greatest of all...might not drink the bitter cup and
shrink..." (DC 19:18) did not diminish Him; in fact, they made Him greater.
b. Consequences
Does great good. Fruitful missionary.
Like the Third Missionary the Fourth Missionary is a successful missionary as measured by the
transformation that occurs in the lives of other people. Like the Third, many people are baptized as a result of his
labors, new members are nourished, and other members become more actively involved.
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Enjoys the Spirit of the Lord.
Like the Third Missionary, the Fourth Missionary is blessed with the Spirit of the Holy Ghost, to find and
teach with convincing power those who are prepared to accept the gospel.
His nature is changed.
Like the Third Missionary, the Fourth Missionary adapts his behavior to conform to the rules of the
mission and to the commandments of God. But, unlike the Third Missionary, the Fourth Missionary's nature, his
character, is changed.
Contentment and happiness
Unlike the Third Missionary, the Fourth Missionary is content, happy, and from time to time, experiences
profound joy. He is at peace with who he is and what he is doing. As in Psalms 40:8 he says:
"I delight to do thy will. O my God: yea. thy law is within my heart."
Benefits immensely from mission.
Unlike the Third Missionary, the Fourth Missionary profits immeasurably from his mission. Unlike
the Third, the good that the Fourth Missionary does benefits him greatly. Unlike the Third, he is changed.
The qualities of godliness are incorporated into his character. The virtues of mercy, integrity, spirituality,
humility, kindness, virtue, diligence, patience and love become more than principles; they become attributes of his
own character.
Do you see that only in losing yourself, may you find yourself; only by enriching others, may you be
enriched; only by giving, may you receive; only in surrendering, may you become free?
This may be what King Benjamin was referring to when he said that without exception when you keep
God commandments you are immediately blessed.
"...all that he requires of you is to keep his commandments; and he has promised you that if you would
keep his commandments ye should prosper in the land; and he never doth vary from that which he hath
said; therefore, if ye do keep his commandments he doth bless you and prosper you. *** he doth require
that ye should do as he hath commanded you; for which if ye do, he doth immediately bless you; and
therefore he hath paid you. And ye are still indebted unto him..."
Mos. 2:22, 24.
Similarly Amulek said:
...if you will repent and harden not your hearts, immediately shall the great plan of redemption be
brought about unto you. (Alma 34:31).
How is it that we are immediately blessed for our obedience? Generally we think that blessings are
realized only over time. For example, the prophet Ether said: "...ye receive no witness until after the trial of your
faith." (Ether 12:6). Another example of how time, diligence and patience playa role in realizing the fruit of our
labors is found in the teachings of Alma about the seed (Alma 32). Here Alma compared the gospel to a seed and
said that we can realize the fruit or benefit of that seed only after a season of caring and nourishing the seed.
(Alma 32). Moses said that the people of Enoch were exalted "in process of time" (Moses7:21). How then are you
blessed immediately for your obedience?
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“The answer is that there are blessings and then there are blessings. Some blessings you wait for; others
are immediate and invariable. One way that you are immediately blessed is that you are changed, and change mav
be the greatest blessing of all. You are the sum total of all that you have thought, done, said, seen, heard and felt
in this life and before. You change immediately with each good thought, each good act, every good word changes
you for the better. When you willingly obey the principles of the gospel, you are changed by the Spirit of God to
become incrementally more like Him. The degree of change with each small act of obedience may be small, but it
is real and immediate. The full, cumulative and perfect realization of this process of change or sanctification
happens only over time, but make no mistake that you are always changing, and that the effects of your obedience
are immediate, whether for better or for worse, depending upon the voice you chose to follow.
The United States Army says "Be all that you can be". But neither the Army nor you know all that you
can be. The Lord says: "Let me make of you all that you can be." As measured by men's standards Army Rangers
are impressive, but when compared with what the Lord can make of you, compared to the realization of your
divine potential they truly are nothing. The realization of your amazing, astounding, and true potential happens
only in the hands of the Lord. But you and only you can place yourselves in those masterful, loving hands.
Just give it up. Surrender your will to Him. Unconditionally. Withhold nothing. Turn it all over to Him;
all of your desires, wishes, dreams and hopes. Be true and faithful in your head and in your heart, not just in your
behavior. Trust in Him. Trust Him who knows all things. Trust Him who has all power. Trust Him whose love for
you is perfect. Trust Him, who alone suffered, paid and atoned for your sins, and for your weaknesses as well.
Trust Him that He will make of you, immeasurably more, than what you will ever, ever, in all eternity, make of
yourself. He will create of you a masterpiece. You will create of you only a smudge. You will create an ordinary
man. He will create a God.
I think that President David O. McKay once said something like this: "The greatest battles you will ever
fight will be within the silent chambers of your heart" That is the battleground between what you want and what
the Lord wants. If you surrender, if the Lord wins, you win also. If you win, if your will prevails, you and the
Lord both lose. The only wav to win is to lose. Lose yourself in the Lord's work, and you will win beyond your
wildest imaginations, for "Eye hath not seen, nor ear heard, neither have entered into the heart of man, the
things which God hath prepared for them that love him." (I Cor 2:9).
Gains great knowledge.
Unlike the Third Missionary, profound knowledge is given to the Fourth Missionary. Alma said: "...and
he that wil1 not harden his heart, to him is given the greater portion of the word, until it is given unto him to know
the mysteries of God until he know them in full." (Alma 12:10).
This missionary is redeemed.
In Alma 12:34-36, Alma teaches that if you repent and if your heart is right you will be redeemed through
the atonement of Christ.
34. Therefore, whosoever repenteth, and hardeneth not his heart, he shall have claim on mercy through
mine Only Begotten Son, unto a remission of his sins; and these shall enter into my rest.
35. And whosoever will harden his heart and will do iniquity, behold, I swear in my wrath that he shall
not enter into my rest.
36. And now, my brethren, behold I say unto you, that if ye will harden your hearts ye shall not enter
into the rest of the Lord...
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Moroni said:
Wherefore, there must be faith; and if there must be faith there must also be hope; and if there must be
hope there must also be charity. And except ye have charity ye can in nowise be saved in the kingdom of
God; neither can ye be saved in the kingdom of God if ye have not faith; neither can ye ifye have no hope.
And if ye have no hope ye must needs be in despair; and despair cometh of iniquity. And Christ truly said
unto our fathers: If ye have faith ye can do all things which are expedient unto me. (Moroni 10:20-23).
Amaleki lived in bridge of time between Enos and King Benjamin. He recorded only 8 verses which are recorded
in the Book of Omni. He said:
And now, my beloved brethren, I would that ye should come unto Christ, who is the Holy One of Israel,
and partake of his salvation, and the power of his redemption. Yea, come unto him, and offer your whole
souls as an offering unto him, and continue in fasting and praying, and endure to the end; and as the Lord
liveth ye will be saved. (Omni 1:26).
As I said before, The Lord admonished: "Therefore, O ye that embark in the service of God, see that ye
serve him with all your heart, might, mind and strength, that ye may stand blameless before God at the last day."
DC 4:2. (Also DC 6, 11, 12, and 14). The Third Missionary serves only with his might and strength, but he
withholds his heart and mind. The Fourth Missionary serves with all his heart and mind in addition to his might
and strength. As a result he is forgiven of his sins through the atonement of Jesus Christ.
Nephi said: "Wherefore, my beloved brethren, reconcile yourselves to the will of God, and not to the will
of the devil and the flesh; and remember, after ye are reconciled unto God, that it is only in and through the grace
of God that ye are saved."
7. Conclusion
I am guessing that generally speaking, out of 100 missionaries 5 will be the First Missionary, 20 will be
the Second, 70 will be the Third Missionary and 5 will be the Fourth Missionary. You can all be the Fourth
Missionary. Decide now to be the Fourth Missionary.
(New missionaries: talk about not serving a 12 month mission).
Don't think that you can't do this. Often we are deceived to think that the gospel is harder than what it is.
Life is hard, not the gospel. You can do what I have explained to you today. Do you hear that? You can. lfyou
don't, it will only be because you choose not to, not because-you can't, not because it is too hard.
The way of the Fourth Missionary is actually the easiest way. This way is free of frustration. It opens the
heart to the Lord, and His power then flows freely without compulsion or constraint.
There is no aspect of the gospel of Christ that is beyond your capacity. Not nearly. There is nothing about
what I have said that you cannot do. You not only can be changed to become more like Christ, the whole of the
plan of salvation is designed in favor of your success. The plan of salvation is a
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not a level playing field. It favors you. It favors not only your success but the success of each and every one of
God's children. Everything has been organized to maximize your opportunity to succeed.
If you think you cannot be the Fourth Missionary you do not understand the doctrine.
Alma was absolutely right when he said: "...it is as easy to give heed to the word of Christ, which will
point you a straight course to eternal bliss, as it was for our fathers to give heed to this compass (Liahona), which
would point unto them a straight course to the promised land...O my son, do not let us be slothful because of the
easiness of the way...see that ye look to God and live..." (Alma 37:45-47.)
Jesus said: "Come unto me all ye that labour and are heavy laden, and I will give you rest. Take my yoke
upon you, and learn of me; for I am meek and lowly in heart: and ye shall find rest unto your souls. For my yoke
is easy, and my burden is light." Matt. 11 :28-30. It is easier to walk with the Lord than it is to labor against
Him.
Speaking of the righteous Lamanites living at the time of Christ Mormon says: "And thus we see that the
Lord began to pour out his Spirit upon the Lamanites, because of their easiness and willingness to believe in his
words."
Now. a word of caution. The Fourth Missionary is not a fanatic. He does not try to be truer than true. He
does not think himself to be better than others. He does not view himself as an elite member of the Lord's army.
On the contrary he becomes increasing aware of his many weaknesses, he becomes
increasing humble, while at the same time he grows in faith and stature before God. He experiences what the Lord
said: "And if men come unto me I will show them their weakness." (Ether 12:27).
Just stay on the path. Give yourself to the Lord and lose yourself in His work. You will do great good, and
the good that you do, will bless and benefit you, forevermore.
Now. I have this last question for you. The Second, Third and Fourth Missionaries, all give two years of
their lives. They all give equally their time, and energy. They all eat the same food. They all face the same
challenges and encounter the same fears. They all sleep in the same quarters. They all walk the same dusty roads
in the heat of the afternoon. They all leave behind girl friends, and sports, and school and everything that was or
could have been for these two years. They all conclude their missions. They all go back and speak in sacrament
meeting and go on with their lives. My question is this: Why do all of that and not benefit personally by it?
Why?
Do you see that I am not talking: about obedience: rather I am talking to you about intelligence. I
am telling you that there is only one intelligent wav to serve a mission; the wav that will bless. and benefit. and
change, and uplift. and empower. and ennoble you; your life, your spirit, your character, you. That is the wav of
the Fourth Missionary. It is the only intelligent way to go.
Now you know. Now you can choose. It is up to you. Serving as the First or Second Missionaries is not
acceptable. I expect you to be at least Number Three. If you are smart you will chose to be Number Four.
If I have an army of #3 Missionaries I will look like a successful mission president. I will go home to a
ticker tape parade along South Temple Street. Throngs of people will line the streets and chant
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my name in praise and wonder, but in truth, in my heart I will know that I failed. I do not just want you to look the
part of a disciple of Christ; I want you to be a disciple of Christ. My primary mission is you. My focus is you. My
concern is your happiness, and I know that neither the First. Second or Third Missionary is happy and content, nor
can he be. You need to be the Fourth Missionary, not for me, but for you. It is the only intelligent thing to do. It is
up to you.
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Create Success

Elder Park asked that talk be added for all to read.

                                                                Elder M. Russell Ballard
     Our time in the mission field is short but eternally important. As we examine the mission field, we see that some missionaries succeed to a great degree and others seem to stumble along, trying to stay enthusiastic, but somehow not obtaining the results which they desire. What makes the difference between a highly successful missionary that baptizes regularly and a missionary that seldom baptizes? Through examining the trends in the missions, we find that it is not the area, it is not the people, and it is not the time of year. Instead it is the attitude of the missionaries and their ability to utilize and apply the talents that they possess. We know that a missionary with a good attitude produces good results; fair attitude, fair results; poor attitude, poor results. The missionary with a good attitude works with the people and not through them.

     Ability means nothing to a missionary if it is not used. The greatest men came to the top because the strength that grew out of meeting resistance. Self-deceptions are responsible for more then three-fourths of all the so-called “unexplained failures” in the mission field. Many missionaries in the race for success explain their shortcomings as they do in the game of bowling. If they fail to win, something was wrong with the ally, the pins, their arms, their members, their companions, their areas, etc. etc. The trouble is never themselves. Of all the distinguished failures, those who deserve the least sympathy are the ones who gather in foolish little cliques, praise each other, deceive each other, criticize others, and fool themselves. They say, “I am not appreciated.” “I have had bad luck all my mission. Others have had a better chance.” “I wish I could have the fortune of Elder ‘success.’” A fireball missionary starts when an investigator says “no!” This is a plain and simple concept but very true.

     Do not be a missionary who complains about his companion his leaders, and his burdens. Instead be a missionary who can be placed in any area and in any set of circumstances and be relied on to set things right. Become a creator of circumstances instead of a creature of circumstances.

     Success does not depend on the message, but on the messenger. We each learn that failure and excuses go together, so we must learn to get away from excuses. Dull or slow months are for dull missionaries, so remember that sharp missionaries don’t have any.

     This is why success is not luck. It can be predicted and followed each day into a successful week, year, and mission. Live one day at a time as though it where a building block. Do each day what should be done that day, and do not under-work, because that brings on the “bad luck” and slumps.


     By being able to control what we put in this mind of ours, we determine our own lives. “as we sow, so shall we reap.” We can see how important it is to sow the right beginning thoughts. Another interesting fact about our minds is that we can only entertain one thought at a time. Therefore, your destiny may be determined by one single thought, and it is up to you whether you make it positive or negative. Think baptism and you will baptize. Your actions, attitude, mission, and life will be directed by your thoughts.